How to impress a girl in 6 simple steps

How to impress a girl, a woman? From boys to guys, the question will always haunt them, if they don’t strategise it all right. I saw many guys instead of impressing, actually make girls irritated and thus make the relationship door close for ever. Add to this the sad factor, when the same guy finds out that the same girl or woman is dating someone who is not as good looking as him, not as intelligent as him, not as ‘deep’ as him. So, what is that, when my friend could not score with a girl, an inferior, less cool guy gets her and enjoys spending quality time with her.


Here, I have laid down six simple but amazingly effective steps which will not only make you impress the girl of your choice, but it will also make them crave about you.

1. Be honest: Lets face this straight, girls do not get impressed by fake smartness. And guys, to act smart make them laughable. To put it simply, do not act to be someone else. Stick to your own personality.

2. A broad smile: Even if you want to impress and dying to talk to her, you don’t smile and act dumb. Remember, smile is not just a smile, it’s a communication device. If you smile right, she will get to know that you don’t dislike her.A stepping stone for next level.

3. Healthy conversation: Strike a conversation. More than sports and celebrity also have some knowledge about current affairs. Do not get into mono dialogue when you speak endlessly while making her a silent listener. Try to get her attention with your conversation. See, if she shows interest in you. Know about latest fashion, music, social stuff etc. Try to know what are her interests?

4. Be well groomed: I haven’t washed my socks for ages, I take bath only oncea week. Sentences like these may add a humour to the conversation, but believe me it will not take you far. You are not a Hollywood celebrity, what works for Brad Pitt won’t work for you.

5. Be friends with everyone: While impressing her, you also should let her know that you are a person who everyone listens to. Strike conversations with your friends or her friends while she is around. She will certainly like the fact that you are cool with everyone.

6. Make her feel comfortable: I am not saying be a slave. I also do not recommend you open the door of your car for her or drag a chair for her in the restaurant. It looks too filmy. The waiter will do that for you. Find out what are other ways you can be chivalrous. Respect her for what she is, Never show doubts about her friends or relatives and don’t put them in bad light.

How to attract a girl or woman in 6 easy steps?

Ok, how to attract a girl or woman, sounds like a tough question for many men around but believe me its not super difficult. There is a saying in Ireland that, more people die of overeating than starvation. Similarly, rather than effectively impressing men commit fatal mistakes while attracting a girl or woman. The 6 steps mentioned here can make you a winner, not with one but many a girls or women, provided, you follow them.


1. Don’t try hard to impress: Yes, that’s the most important aspect of attracting a girl or woman. Well, you may be wondering, how can it be possible? I mean you are reading "how to impress a girl" and here I am saying don’t try hard to impress her. Well, when most of the guys are doing the same thing, it pays to be different. And believe me you will look more authentic by not trying to “impress” her like all those counterfeited guys. Just be yourself and let things happen automatically.


2. Your talent scores over others: Are you an ace swimmer? A stand up comedian, a singer or knows playing any musical instrument? You have a better chance of winning a super lady than other average guys. Of course, some girls are impressed by rich brats, hard luck to you and good luck to them, because they are not anyway actually loving that rich person per se, its just about their money. Girls also like to be with intelligent men, so if you are a mathematic or software genius, you need not have to sing or dance or make people laugh at school/college/office annual event.

3. Do not be too serious about yourself: It is not advisable you take yourself too seriously. Have some kind of sense of humour, should have some jokes in your arsenal which does not make you look like a champion. Believe me it will help. If you poke fun at yourself, it would look healthy anyway, have good laugh at yourself, make her laugh too in the bargain.


4. Be sensitive: Be sensitive towards her, her profession, career, education, the place she has come from or the school or college she has studied in. Don’t crack jokes on these, because these are the areas she probably holds pretty close to her heart.


5. Be thoughtful: Don’t just shoot words after words. Try to understand her, realise what she tries to mean when she says something, think what should be the reasons she reacted in a particular way when you touched a topic. Be a good listener.

6. Overall, have a great attitude: Don’t be a crying soul or all negative towards life. Don’t be a nagging uncle. Don’t blame others and go on and on and on. These things would irritate anyone and she is not any exception.

If you are really serious about getting your girl or woman, you have to be tactful, patient and have to really work strategically to win her. I am not saying you completely change yourself for her, but certainly you have to be restrained while letting your emotion go.